The Man's Action Versus Allah's Decree.

Let me guess- you constantly check your phone hoping for a message from the man and every time your heart feels a little disappointed. You wait days and weeks hoping to get a text or call from him and he never reaches out. Your heart is exhausted waiting for him to finally make a move.. finally show up for you. To say something- anything at all.

And it never happens.

Ladies- I have been there. I would go through all of my socials and even emails hoping he found a way to bypass my block and message me somehow. I would hope one day to open my phone to a long message from him.

I hoped and hoped. And it never happened.

But something has changed. Lately- I don't check my phone hoping for anything anymore.. because I realize one thing.

First- let's make one thing clear. When Islamic spiritual awakenings happen, Allah puts a divine block in the communication between the man and woman. Yes, on the surface it looks like the man losing interest and pulling away, but actually the pull away is orchestrated by Allah in order to start your awakening.

Once you understand this point, you will start realizing how little control the man actually has. It's not that he doesn't want to message you.. he actually can't. The blocker is from Allah.

So no matter how much you check your phone or wait in anticipation.. it makes no difference. Not because the man doesn't care, but because Allah has not allowed that conversation to take place yet.

You have to realize that this isn't about a man waking up one day and send you a message telling you he misses you. It's beyond that. This is about if Allah decrees this man to reunite with you. Ladies.. this isn't just about a text message.. it's about a real life reunion.

If Allah doesn't decree it, it won't happen no matter what. A text is nothing compared to Allah's decree.

Once you understand this.. the expectation that you have from the man falls away.

The man has little to no power. The real power is from Allah- who is ultimately choosing your written partner. And if Allah has chosen this man to be yours.. he will make the reunion happen. And if Allah hasn't chosen this man to be yours.. then you can keep your phone open day and night- and that text will never come your way.